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Lovense vs We-Vibe

Lovense vs We-Vibe for app-controlled and long-distance play: app features, toy range, price, privacy and which brand suits which couple.

Our verdict

Lovense if you want the most app features for the money and paired toys for long distance. We-Vibe if you want premium build and the best wearable couples' toys, with an app that just works.

LovenseWe-Vibe
OriginSingapore, 2010Canada, 2008
Price levelMid-rangePremium
App depthVery deep (music sync, patterns, toy-to-toy sync)Solid and simpler
Physical controlsLimited on some toysButtons and remotes on most toys
Long-distance couplesPaired toys (Max + Nora)Remote control of most toys via app
Build and finishFunctionalPremium

The short version

Both brands let a partner control a toy through an app, nearby or from across the world. Lovense is app-first and packs in more features at lower prices. We-Vibe is toy-first, with better build quality and an app that adds to the toy rather than being the whole point.

Where Lovense wins

  • Features. Music sync, custom patterns, toy-to-toy syncing and interactive platforms.
  • Price. Most app-controlled categories cost less than at We-Vibe.
  • Paired toys made for long-distance couples of any gender combination.

Where We-Vibe wins

  • Build quality and premium materials.
  • Couples’ wearables like Chorus and Sync.
  • Physical controls, so you aren’t always reaching for a phone.

A note on privacy

Both brands have had app privacy issues in the past (We-Vibe settled a class action in 2017; the Lovense app had an audio-recording bug the same year). Both fixed them, but any connected toy carries some risk. Use a strong password, check app permissions and read the current privacy policy.

Which should you buy?

Long-distance and love the tech? Lovense. Mostly together, and want a toy you’ll both feel during sex? We-Vibe.